Cats, sorry if I have the wrong person because it's hard to remember who's struggling with what, but don't you have an eating disorder? I would think a T needs to be very careful about working out with someone who has an eating disorder because it can reinforce the body image issues. My closest friend has a daughter with an eating disorder and she works out because it helps her avoid gaining weight. Her T would never team up with her to engage in a behavior that helps her avoid the weight gain she desperately needs. That would be like handing her a laxative to quickly get rid of the food after she eats.