My T never takes notes, and he remembers the tiniest details of things (names, etc). It's kind of amazing.
A few sessions ago, I was in my car and realized I REALLY wanted something from his desk that I had brought back to him that day, so I actually WENT BACK IN (!) and peeked in his door and asked if I could take it. He was sitting at his desk typing on his computer...I wondered if it was notes about the session.
I did ask him to not write down DETAILS about my trauma stuff, and I believe him when he says that he doesn't do that. Which is a relief.
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