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Originally Posted by jadedmoonbeam
I think way way way before you think about your ex, you have to figure out about your marriage.
If you're unhappy, make a plan and figure a way out, then worry about the ex. It doesn't sound like you had some huge love affair with the ex - you moved on from him so it sounds like he is an escape for you right now. Take care of what's going on around you first, then worry about the future.
I think you know what the right thing is to do - you sound smart, just got stuck in a bad situation - I know exactly how you feel.
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The bad thing is the entire time I have been married I have thouught about my ex. i never said I love you to him so I was at fault also. I felt rejected because he wouldn't say it first. I know what other people would say the right thing to do is. "You made your bed so sleep in it. You made a commitment so you have to stay." But I don't know if that is what I WANT to do.