Yes. I want to hear everything you have to say. I need all the help I can get. My husband does have anger issues and is on medication for that and anxiety. I don't believe I would have made it this long had he of not had any medication. He feels like there is nothing wrong with our relationship and that I am too easy on the children (especially my daughter). There was a big ordeal about his first child by another women that he says she went into the courtroom and told a bunch of lies about him and now he only has supervised vistiation (he hasn't seen her in like 8 years though). He said that she told them he was violent and that she used his job in the military to make him look like a bad person. I am not sure of the whole story and just found out about the visitation thing about 6 months ago. He told me the other day that he has come close to hitting an ex before but I don't ever feel scared that he is going to hit me. I am terrified of controntation and try not to get into arguements.