Cats,
Do you think it's appropriate to go to the gym with your T, especially since you do have eating d/o issues, as Preacherheckler so wisely said.
You made it sound like it was planned and not a coincidental meeting at the gym - is that the case?
And if so, did you pay her for that time?
Is this something that happens regularly?
I know you mentioned you have a 'bizarre' relationship with your T, and that you've been seeing her for a while. But that does not necessarily mean that everything she does is ok, and it doesn't mean that she has appropriate boundaries. Please be careful.