I agree with madisgram and Welshdragon - I suggest taking it slow for both your sakes. If she's antisocial, then moving too fast could make her back off. I think saying a statement like "it's wonderful hearing from you and I would like to communicate more at your speed" might be a good thing to say. I also suggest you both put all expectations aside ....meaning instead of hoping to make this a close sister like bond, you can both focus on being like friends getting to know each other, but open to getting closer. You can be easy on yourself by keeping expectations low but open to expanding it. Due guard yourself and be aware of your boundaries so you won't get hurt. Best of luck (((shezbut)))