oh, wow....sorry to hear that your husband was being a jerk.....I know how that feels, but I'm lucky he never picked on my weight.....at least not yet.

Don't let him make you feel bad, tell him either he love you the way you are.....or there's the door.

I've gained probably 15 pounds after my two year straight pregnancies were all said and done, and ever since yes I have felt warmer. But not hot spells.....that seems a bit more then just a little more insulation.

I'd go to the doctors and have that checked out.....could be a medical problem.

I hope you feel better, don't let anybody bring you down.

Desirae