Dear Red Rose,

The only advice I could give on the issue to possibly save IT - is for you and him to get off the crazy cycle of destruction that is happening in the relationship.... by either working to save IT or work to rid your self of IT.

Some times all it takes is for one of the people on the relationship to start the change.... then in time if IT is meant to be - then all else will fall into place.

LoVe,
Rhapsody -

Another website and book to check out on the crazy cycle.... it HELPED me!
Link: http://loveandrespect.com/