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Old Jul 03, 2011, 08:52 AM
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I really need help on overcoming my possessiveness and jealousy. I hate feeling like it and it's causing problems between me and my boyfriend. Im so possessive that I get annoyed when he wants to go out or see his friends or do anything! And my jealousy is so over the top that I get angry when he simply mentions a girl.
I know that this really isn't healthy but might have some reasons as to why I feel like this.
First of all, I am very insecure with myself and still don't understand what it is that he loves about me. I've never had feelings like the ones I have for him and i'm terrified of losing him. Throughout my life i've never had any reliable or trustworthy male models. And I thought perhaps that i'm an only child and so i've never had to "share" anything may also contribute.
Does anyone have any idea of how I can control this so that we both can have more freedom and be happier within the relationship??