I don't think I am too attached anymore, but I was for a while......I thought about her way too much. I came home from session and had to take a long nap and went over all her words/gestures/hugs (when I got them, that is!) in my mind. That was obsession........since we don't hug anymore, the attachment has changed. It feels more reasonable, in that I don't think of her all the time or attach undue importance to words/gestures, etc.
She left a message on my phone while I was in hospital that I have saved and keep listening to though, because it means a lot to me.....so I am still quite attached and not ready to leave her by any means!