I emailed my therapist about what my dad had said and how this made me feel and she emailed me back saying that this was a really important issue and made her realize that she didn't know anything about my family and that we would talk about this in therapy next week. She also said that I am very intelligent but have trouble articulating myself (which is very true), and this is something she would like to help me with, as well as discussing how my dad's views on women affect the way I view myself. Also, she said that I was not being "dramatic or whiny," which is something I expressed worry over in the email.
So I guess like doodle said, she seems more than OK helping me with other things, which I am happy about, b/c I like her and don't really want to stop going to her just b/c my eating has stabilized.