Thank you everyone for your support. I almost cried when I read all of your replies. ((((((((((((((hugs for all)))))))))))))))
I think I'm past menopause but like Tomi said, I'm sure it's possible to be suffering some tail end effects of it. I do have a low thyroid problem for which I take 75 mg. of Synthroid. I also have anxiety. So......thanks to all of you, I can see that the cause of my being too warm could be the extra 20 lbs. or any of the other problems.
Needless to say he was being a jerk and I don't intend to take his advice about gagging myself. However, with fibromyalgia, I'm having a hard time getting up the energy to exercise, even though I know I need to.
We do walk together when he is being nice.

Thanks again everyone. I love you guys.