My abusive boss was a major contributor to my recent break down. I was also worried about quitting because of the economy and losing benefits. If it helps at all, I suffered from his abuse for 3 years and he was terminated about a month ago. I wonder why it took upper management so long to take action. There are many of my coworkers who are working on a lawsuit for hostile work environment - he literally called the team f**ing stupid. I was his target and he would push me until I would cry and then write me up for unprofessional behavior. He treated everyone horribly. I guess, every dog gets it's day! Him being forced out the door was one of the best things that could have happened for me. I actually enjoy work again!
I didn't realize what an emotional toll his behavior was taking on me until I fell apart in Jan. I wish I could say that all horrid bosses eventually get removed, unfortunately that is not always the case. I wonder if it would be worth it write out a pros and cons list. Your mental health is not worth any job! I wish I hadn't realized that too late.
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Children's talent to endure stems from their ignorance of alternatives.
~ Maya Angelou
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