(((((Stormy)))) I bet your clients are beyond blessed to have you as a T. I know that my own T is a recovered sex addict with PTSD. And I wouldn't change a single thing about him. He is the kindest and bravest man I have ever met.
I think it is WONDERFUL that you work so so so hard on who you are so you can go on helping others every day. I think it would be very hard to be a T when you have PTSD because so many things can trigger that. I have seen my Ts eyes change when I am telling him about my past. But he stays with me. I am sure you do the same thing. He amazes me, like I am sure you amaze your clients.
For me, it heals me to know that the man I am telling these things to KNOWS what I am talking about. I hate it that he knows. But I couldn't heal without what he brings to the relationship through his past and who he is. The very fact that he fights day in and day out to continue to be the best he can be as a human for all of his clients and for his wife and kids tells - no SHOWS - me that maybe I can one day heal to that same level. He makes it. And because of that, I believe that I can make it as well.
YOU give that to your clients. Thank you so much for who you are!
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