That's tough, rainbow_rose. I see both sides of the coin. My T told me a couple of weeks ago that we're spending so much time talking about our relationship that we're not doing anything else. I got angry with her for saying that and I left my session dissatisfied and angry.

However, when I did go to another issue, surprisingly, I felt all right. I didn't feel like my relationship with my T was diminished. Well, this was after telling her on the phone how I felt and her reassuring me that she cared about me the same as always but her job was to help me be happier in my real life. She said it in a NICE way, though.

So, it hurt me but I understand that there is only so much talking about the relationship that can be done. Still, I know my T will let me bring up my feelings about her as much as I need to. She won't stop me. I think there has to be a middle ground.

The point of bringing it up again is if there is something you want to tell her or want to hear from her. Or, just to get the feelings out. I've had to tell my T my feelings for her when they are too big to keep inside. I had to ask if it was okay to love her. I had to ask if she liked me. I had to tell her I liked her eyes. I had to tell her I liked her better than my other Ts. I had to tell her I wished I could be a baby kangeroo and live in her pouch. I had to tell her about driving past her house. And more.

Now there is not so much to tell her. She knows it and we're both okay with how I feel about her. Do you know what specifically you want/need to tell your T about how you feel about her and your relationship? If so, I think you should tell her. If she doesn't want to hear it, maybe she's not the right kind of T for you. But I think she will be okay with it if you say something specific.