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Originally Posted by Chloe2
Possibly I resist caring from people, without realizing it which in turn results in them taking a step back and I believe that no matter who I was working with I would be dealing with the same obstacles. Its just Im really hurting right now and wish I was getting more emotionally from him to be able to move forward because its feels like I'm going through it alone. Why is he so stiff with me!  Does anyone understand that feeling? Its holding me back but I would never be able to tell him how I feel, it feels too childish.  |
If you resist caring from people maybe your T is afraid he/she will patronize you or make you feel that way if they are too sentimental. I do not want someone who is rude and/or dismissive but I am uncomfortable with them being "sentimental" with me because it makes me feel silly and childlike and helpless, if that makes sense. So, is it possible you may be helping to maintain the distance from your T in some way and then afraid they do not care? Just a thought.
