Thank you to Yoda, bebop and Avoice. Yes it's so sad he was so young - he didn't have time to get married or have children. The funeral will be Wednesday. It has to be delayed because of several reasons - he passed on a holiday and at home..so a mandatory autopsy has to be done. Most of the doctors were off for the weekend, plus his older sister is coming from Australia and that takes time to book a ticket, plus the long flight. I think most families just assume the youngest will live the longest. Thank you again to everyone who responded.