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Originally Posted by scorpiosis37
No, it isn't wrong. It would be inappropriate to act on those feelings physically, but simply having the feelings isn't wrong. In fact, it's common and well within the "normal" range. The very nature of the therapy relationship can be rather seductive. After all, T is someone who listens to you, supports you, cares about you, and tells you that you're interesting and fantastic just the way you are. I think it can be difficult to tell whether an attraction to T is genuinely physical (are there really that many babilicious Ts out there?!) or whether you are attracted to the way T makes you feel and THAT is what makes you feel a physical attraction. Just my 2 cents.
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You are right...thanks for making sense of that
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Originally Posted by scorpiosis37
..I think it can be difficult to tell whether an attraction to T is genuinely physical....or whether you are attracted to the way T makes you feel and THAT is what makes you feel a physical attraction..
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I agree. I am aware that she is physically attractive because I am human and notice this fact. But I am more attracted to how she makes me feel. It's almost as if this, combined with her appearance, make her into (in my mind) a sort of superperson because she has both emotional intellect
and physical attraction at the same time. Sheesh - how shallow am I!
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