I just realized that I am in an abusive relationship. Perhaps, I have been in denial all this time. My husband who I have been with for four years (married for one of those four) is mentally and emotionally abusive towards me and my children. Is there a way to "fix" (that is the only word I can think of) him? Is there a way for him to overcome abusing? Or is it best to just run?

If I should leave, how do I even go about it?