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Sanada · Jul 05, 2011, 12:47 PM

Hi open eyes. Sorry you are going through a hard time. It seems like you should step back from you're problems and look at you're self. You dont want to get high blood pressure because of others making mistakes. You're neighbours disrespecting you're land and allowing their dogs to run wild and disrupting you're farm and property is something best taken care of by some lawyer. It seems that you need a new one, I'd sack the one I was with if going to see him and he cannot remember you're case.
As for you're T, I'd also get a new one too, if you're T does'nt remember you have an appointment with him/her again I would look else where for better services.
Try to be more positive, if food comes from a take away and its the wrong order, go back 'calmly', and show them they got it wrong. Please dont throw it in their faces; you can get arrested for that and you dont want that.

Try to look at all whats going wrong and take one problem at a time. Look after you're self, its you thats the victim here, but to solve the problems you have to be calm about it. Again; one thing at a time. As for you're hubby, he's probably not understanding whats happening, that does not mean he does not love you.

Again like i say, problems are best delt with one at a time, think clearly on how to solve them. Write them down in order of how they affect you. Be clear in you're decisions. Write down how to solve them, and again be clear in how it affects you and you're life.
You can get through this open, its just a matter of perception. Think of you're own well being and be calm when something goes wrong. High blood pressure comes from being angry.

I hope this helps
Take care.
Sanada.