((((((suzzie))))))

I'm thinking it sounds like your situation is somewhat like granite's with her T. Will your T play a game with you or do something other than expect you to talk? Maybe draw or paint? Will she do breathing exercises with you? Maybe something completely different will help! What about writing notes to each other in the session? Or bringing in your writing? Do you ever do that?

Are you afraid of your T? Do you have a problem connecting to other people or just your T?