Hazel,
I just wanted to add that it is not unusual for people to never really learn about a healthy relationship or even have a real sense of who they are because of how they were raised. So we cant just go blaming another person for all their behaviors that are a pattern of what APPEARS to be some sort of guide to parent themselves or behave in patterns that are really unhealthy. The truth is they are really confused and have no real sense of how to respect themselves or others. THEY NEVER LEARNED HOW TO DO THAT. And often the person male or female displays that by acting out, controling others, and because they learned psychological abuse, they not only continue to abuse themselves but others as well. AND THEY ARE NOT REALLY AWARE OF ALL THE WHYS AND HOW TO LEARN AND DEVELOPE INTO A BETTER PERSON.

Open Eyes