I don't think there is a right way or a wrong way to grieve the loss of a baby. Sure you are depressed!! Anyone that loses a child is going to be depressed. It is THE most horrible thing anyone can ever go thru. The thing that finally helped me thru was when I realized that God had only loaned her to us for a very short time. There was a song by the greens named "Jesus Has a Rocking Chair" if you can find a copy get it! it is a wonderful healing song if you really listen to it. My love is with you and your family.