Last April my husband got a diagnose for depression. I'm tired he's on meds since tha 23rd of may and has totally change

He doesn't understand that i need some time to ajust. I got two kids and ate my emotion away so i'm happy and mad at the same time. I don't know what to do next. Let time heal me or go and see is psy with him. Does anyone have experience in that area.
Thanks for reading me
Myart