I've talked to my husband also about all this. He listens to me, not sure if he understands exactly. I know he doesn't want me to make some drastic career change and like quit my job or something. I am not planning on doing that, but I feel like I obsess about seeing what 'career' options are out there. I check job sites very frequently, which is a double edge sword because I want to keep my options open, but it also makes me more anxious.