Well Byz is right, it can and does happen. But there is ususally a reason for it.

I do recall being in chats where someone enters into a chat and what they say is inappropriate as I am recalling someone coming into a chat and talking about kind of potty talk behavior. Or is someone is following someone and leaning too much on the other person with issues that are uncomfortable for the person who is trying to politely run.

Or there can be a group or clique that has trouble accepting what they deem outsiders that they do not want in their private group. Yes, that happens in normal situations in general social contacts and interactions everywhere.

This is where one can use chat to try to build self esteem and better methods of socializing. I have seen this behavior take place in the chats. And it can be troublesome for someone who just cant seem to master good communication skills.
Especially in PC where many people are working on trying to overcome their issues.
What Evening has done is express her concerns. By her doing that some suggestions have been made and now she has an idea of a new approach to getting her needs met. That is theraputic and I would encourage others to express their own difficulties and perhaps find ways to learn how to perhaps address it.

Or perhaps we need to have a special chat that people can go to where they can address their difficulties with others and have others in that chat who will be willing to work with these individuals. A designated chat leader who can spot difficulties and private message someone who is behaving poorly and walk them through try saying this or try to make more sense or you are just coming on too strong etc.

I had decided to spend more time in the forums to take time out and learn about some of the people I see in chats. I found that I liked the forums so much that I just haven't had a chance to get back into a chat.

Open Eyes