I had to think about this long and hard before I answered. Some of my children are around the same age as yours. I think if you wanted to do therapy it would be fine. They'll probably never get into your BPII. They'll just talk about her feelings at the time, and the therapist will reasure her that you love her etc., and help defuse some of the anger.

Her therapist could also help give you ideas on what you "can" do with her. Like watch movies on down days, color, read books. That's what I do. I do my best to. On up days....we actually leave the house. If the down times come more often than not...it also might be time to recheck your meds. All I did was sleep like what you're talking about when I was on seraquil, and I never got used to it.

xoxoxo