Thank you Sanada and others for the condolences.

The funeral was yesterday and it was very sad, but it took a dramatic turn...... like something out of a movie. I would like to share more, but I'm wondering how to assemble my feelings first. I know people have their own reaction to death but I've never seen anything quite like what I saw yesterday. His older sister became hysterical twice yesterday and I don't think this is the correct way to express grief IMO. Lets say if I die, sure it's fine to grieve but I don't want anyone going overboard and getting sick because I'm gone. I think it also takes the focus away from 'respecting the dead person' and onto the reacting person. I felt like I was on a reality show. I don't know whether I should share more about this or not.