Chronic:
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I have real problems with this
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so sorry you do
, I do too. but it's a bit different feeling for me-- it feels scary, unsafe.
rainbow8:
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You know, a mom who has many children loves each one!
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I think this might be where some of my trigger comes from-- a mother that picked one girl and one boy as her chosen ones and the rest of us had to fend for ourselves... which resulted in abuses and traumas for me(being the youngest) and two sisters and another brother being alcoholics. I fear that caring can
not go around to each person-- it's a worry I so struggle with every single week... *sigh*... I hate it....
granite1:
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i just felt really bad because i was intruding on the other client
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Yes, me too when T. and I are running overtime! I know how uncomfortable it feels for me when T. is 10-15 minutes behind schedule and I sure don't want another person to feel that same way...
crazycanbegood:
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try to think of what your T gives you in the moment you are together. You have her attention and her care at the moment. She can be there for you, even with many other clients.
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I think this is good advice Chronic. I try really hard to do this very thing-- but it's really hard work and not so good at convincing myself just yet.
please know you are not alone
fins