(((((Lynn))))),

I am sorry that I didn't see your post before today.....my sympathy goes out to your husband's family. What strength you had to make it through the funeral. Glad your strength was there to help your girls through the drama that was involved. It took a lot of strength & ability to write out your experience with the family & the funeral. It is sad when the honor of the person who has died is taken away by the drama of the grievers (family). I always knew that the funeral was for the ones left behind, but it's to give honor to the person not to create drama. I am sorry that your daughters had to go through that experience, what a trauma to go through on top of the sudden death of your husband's brother. What a memory your girls will take away from this experience.

You are always very wise with your guidance you give to your girls, I'm sure you will be able to help them with their thoughts & comments after all of this has passed.