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Old Jul 07, 2011, 10:01 PM
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Originally Posted by dismissed feelings View Post
Sorry if this was addressed before somewhere but... should I be worried that my T does not take notes in session? How can they remember everything? I ramble like crazy due to anxiety so I am sometimes hard to follow. What if they miss or don't remember something that could be important? Some things I just do not want to have to repeat!

I really do like the fact they do not have to look down and I do not have to wonder what they are writing and get distracted by it, but is taking some notes or being fully present w/o taking notes better for treatment?
I've had T's that took notes and my current T does not. I really prefer a T to not take notes during the session. My current T took notes in the first session, but hasn't done so since. I find it very distracting when the T is taking notes, and it feels like there's a barrier between me and T when they are writing notes. My current T has a great memory, but she told me that she also does notes after a session if she needs to. I've never had to repeat any part of my story to my current T.
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