I'm so proud to report to you all that I went RIGHT to the website and posted a private message to this person who I THINK gave me a swipe (it's really hard for me to tell - I've been so isolated lately and so cut off from the experience I need to navigate it all because I've allowed myself to be so isolated! . Anyway, I was SO appropriate (and so scared), but I didn't hesitate for a moment. PHEW. Thank you all for being here!