Okay, I just gotta say this: I PM'd this woman to be clear about a msg she'd posted, and I'm telling you - SOOO STUPID-BLUUUUUUUNT - and you know - I'm smart and worldly enough to be able to tell that she REALLY didn't mean to be rude - in fact she said over and over that she didn't mean to be rude - and then she would just say the RUDEST THIIIIINGS - THIS is the problem I have with LIIIIIIIFE - I'm like: "I CAN'T SAY THESE RUDE THINGS - WHY ON EARTH does everyone else not only get away with it - they have the GALL to say that you should toughen up if you want to discuss this or that. Since when does discussing this or that involve getting SMACKED AROUND? This website is proof that BAD BEHAVIOR JUST ISN'T NECESSARY - you know? People are just so competitive and they're just LORDING their knowledge over everyone and everything and a discussion just becomes this font for everyone to impress one another so that they're not even discussing things - they're just BLAZING thru the discussion to show you how accomplished they are. UGH. THIS is why I'm a loner (actually, I'm not a loner - i'm just becoming very very very very careful about who I spend time with) (ha ha - LIKE MY CAAAAAAAAT! ((just kidding - I really am reaching out very carefully and finding just wonderful people!)) (but my LORD - I never thought I'd have to be THIS careful!) Anyway: , !!!