here we are again not posted for about a year or more now im posting twice in one mth about a smiler problem, son thinks he has sort of moved out and is living with this girl, but i know if that was the case she would loose her benefits and he would have to get his changed, so to keep them from getting into trouble he has to stay home a couple of nights a week, well he is a pain Sunday night he came home at 11pm thought we were asleep and left at 12.30am, left it go, i make him come bk for his adhd meds, he is a adult though, so its Thursday yesterday i told him if he needed anything he had to come get it before we went out, so he came up for his meds at 9.30am, we went out at about 1ish i left a key in the bk door so he couldn't unlock door from outside, shut all downstairs windows, came home to the key hanging were we keep it, he said he hadnt been in came bk at 9.30pm for clean clothes, wasn't till today that when hubby went to go out and found the ladder by the side of the shed we realised he had climbed on shed roof and in through bathroom window, i told him when i phoned that it was classed as breaking and entry, lucky nobody phoned the police on him

at every turn he seems to do something stupid to ruin all the good he has been doing, how much should i put up with, we dont know what he came in for dont know what he took, he has stolen of everybody in the house before so i dont trust him, i know that harsh he is my son, how far can i go though before i snap