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Jul 08, 2011, 07:47 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Hi ~ Bless your heart -- I know you're miserable. I'm so sorry. But I have to agree with the others in that you might as well give her the divorce.
What if you got back together? Can you imagine what it would be like? She would be resentful, she would be angry, she wouldn't treat you well at all. She wants to be free -- and by continuing to hang on to her is just going to cause more problems. Let her go, so you can move on with your life. I KNOW there is someone out there for you --- you're too nice of a guy to stay 'single' very long.  I'm sure you will have your share of dates -- there are plenty of women out there looking for a nice guy like you!
Since she started "changing" before you split up, i.e. listening to different kinds of music and dressing differently -- I have to think she has someone else. Why else did she make these changes?
Just let her go -- you DESERVE someone better. God bless & please take care of yourself. Hugs, Lee
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