Stormy, I find your opinion interesting because having the same t and also seeing him as a couple has been vital to our recovery and the improvement in our lives. By working with both of us, he really has an intimate understanding of the dynamics that are working between us, something that having a separate therapist would really never get to because he wouldn't be seeing all sides of the story. Neither of us are threatened by the situation at all. On the contrary, we both find it to be highly therapeudic.