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Originally Posted by farmergirl
Stormy, I find your opinion interesting because having the same t and also seeing him as a couple has been vital to our recovery and the improvement in our lives. By working with both of us, he really has an intimate understanding of the dynamics that are working between us, something that having a separate therapist would really never get to because he wouldn't be seeing all sides of the story. Neither of us are threatened by the situation at all. On the contrary, we both find it to be highly therapeudic.
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I'm glad that it is therapeutic for you both. That's what counts. Professionally, my training and experience has been very different. I too find it interesting.
How did the relationship with T start? Who found him first, how much individual work, did it start as couples, etc?
I find that shifting from couples to individual work is easier. If both of you are in from the start, then the shift from couples and individual is easy. But if it's one individual for a length of time, and then try to integrate it into couples, it hasn't worked well or is recommended with my training.