I am having them. It's been 8 months with my current beau, and it was all working out well. He is of course supportive, understanding, good to me. Then, I find out he's having cyber sex everyday with other women. I'm hurt and confused and haven't deided what to do. He tells me he is addicted and he needs help, and honestly, I agree, I think it is out of control. He has been there for me and especially supportive since I was diagnosed bi-polar, so my first inclination is to be there for him. But on the other hand I feel betrayed and hurt. This is not the first time he's been caught by me, but it is the most prolific and epic. I think he thought he had it so well hidden that he just went crazy with it. I don't need advice on what to do, stay with him or not, I'll figure it out. (but if you want to give me advice, I'll listen) I mostly just want someone to say "this situation sucks!" as much as I am feeling it.