never mind :-) I subtle tried to handle this just by asking indirectly- I asked her to please not to be upset and again i was sorry- she text back that she was not upset, just a little shocked..

This feeling here - The one that I mess things up and people are mad at me, is one feeling that I really dislike- just to find out I stressed over nothing. Played out things in my head that are not even true... some times I do get too wrapped up in them