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Originally Posted by PTSDlovemycats
Well T saved me again today.,,I had my car towed and no money to pay for it. She drove me to the impound lot and paid for my towing expenses. I didn't even ask her to do that but she just said. "C'mon let's go pick up your car, I'll pay for it and you can pay me back next week."
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It seems like she is giving you mixed messages. On the one hand, she is telling you to be an adult, and to not be so dependent on her (in another thread)...and then on the other, she is rescuing you.
Could you have called your boyfriend or your parents or a friend to help you with this?
My T would let me use his phone, and let me sit in his waiting room, and probably even brainstorm solutions if I couldn't reach anyone, but there is literally NO way he would drive me to pick up my car and pay for it, unless maybe (and I do mean maybe) it was a matter of life and death.
I'm sorry you're getting such mixed messages. Sounds confusing.

