all I can say is, wow........I think, cats, that this relationship IS definitely crossing some boundaries it shouldn't if T is doing stuff like paying for your impounded car, too......
You do work, I am assuming? Will you have money to pay her back next week already if you didn't have any this week? I don't mean to sound harsh, it's just that this seems like it's going too far; T shouldn't be rescuing you in ways such as this.......