Yeah Cats, it's like she says the words but does the opposite. How can you be expected to act like an adult when she doesn't treat you like one? I mean isn't this the same T who followed you into the bathroom too, so she could be sure you weren't throwing up after you ate? Honestly, Cats, I don't think this is healthy at all. My T would help me in the same way that Tree's T would help her, and MAYBE, if it were an extremely serious situation and there were absolutely no alternatives -- like Tree said, life or death -- then he'd drive me somewhere. But I just can't see how you have any incentive to be an adult when she treats you like a child.