Hi lisaxtiffany.

i have friends that have seen over 600 Kiss concerts, have tattoos of all of the members of Kiss on them and so much Kiss memorabilia I've never seen anything like it.
I have other friends that have seen Dave Matthews 100 times, followed the Grateful Dead around the US and Europe...camping out around every location
Women used to throw their underwear at Elvis.

We all get crushes on celebrities.

I don't know if you have a problem with your crush on the band but it doesn't sound like it- I think if you like their music, and you like going to see their concerts, and the band hasn't kicked you out of their hotels or called you a stalker, then you are probably fine.

It sounds like you are one of those people that tends to be the victims of bullies...i feel for you because I was one of those girls too.
The people that are saying these horrible things about you - they sound like those 'mean girl' types....they prey on the sensitive and those of us who are percieved as weak. You know you aren't doing anything wrong and they probably do too - it's because you are a little different from them that they feel threatened. I think if you got your courage together, on your own or with the help of a professional, you could confront them, for trying to damaging your good name, and tell them to f*** off!

Good luck!