i have been seeing a coucellor since the break up of my ex..victims services pays for that for up to 2000 dollars...she actually told me i should give him a chance and that i deserve someone good in my life..my own insecurities is what will ruin it in my opinion..im going to have to work even harder on myself..i been trying to take it slow but its like a dream,even he says what were the chances of us meeting..ty for ur response