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Originally Posted by lastyearisblank
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I am distorting things...you're right. I have a hard time letting my kids help me, I have taken care of me and everyone else my whole life, it seems wrong to lean on them. Especially this year, with the cancer and everything I have been a big problem for them.
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Originally Posted by poetgirl76
tell T you NEED those stabilizing skills NOW! he shouldn't be 'forgetting' those.....tell him you NEED the structure and consistency. if he was doing a better job of providing for the needs you have that he does have the training to do, maybe then you aren't in the position of needing more support like the program offers. you definitely need to lay things out clearly for T, he seems like he is missing the boat a bit as far as meeting your needs in some ways....
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lol poetgirl....either he's just missing it or he doesn't want to handle it, either way I am up crap creak without a paddle. And this is no time to start with a new T, not even one at a trauma treatment center.