Hi Byzantine:
I guess this is my day for saying, it's not you, it's them. You're resistant? No, excuse me, Ts just don't know how to reach you, and they are not humble enough or have enough strength of character to admit their failing. If you were able to explain what you needed to them, well, you wouldn't need them, would you?! I would bet dollars to donuts part of the problem is your extreme intelligence. I know, I suffer greatly from this myself! Hey, who are you calling grandiose?

But seriously, folks! Borderline blah blah blah by Peter Giovacchini avail now on amazon for 1 cent This guy is humble and amazing. Maybe he worked for me because we're both Italian. But he helped me, gave me the words, to tell my current T what he was doing wrong for me. And so it began...

Coincidentally, people ask me what I'm doing now that I'm not working, and I say, Nothing, absolutely nothing, but it takes me ALL DAY! What it is.