Do you guys have any odd issues with a spouse who prefers one alter over YOU? I went out tonight to dinner with my partner of 13 yrs and I was highly triggered because of an incedent in chat a few hours before... have been dealing with some sx addiction issues and thought I had found a safe group. But once again I failed to be able to participate in the rules of society I fail to understand, got scolded for being TOO supportive in a share someone was doing, and I left the group and deleted the information from my ipad so I will never go back there again.

So my protective alter Elaine came out and went to dinner. I already have been having a heck of a time with addiction withdraws anyway and my teen alter is not happy about life and I am exhausted. Well at dinner my mate tells that alter that she really likes how wonderful it is to see her and how she was thinking of leaving us. She said she wouldn't do it but had seriously thought of it.

I am kinda in shock right now but I am writing to just see if that happened to others I guess. It was bad enough that I was again thinking of how to end this suffering and I thought I was done with that stage but then to have this all happen.