"We fight go back together , fight go back together. We have been trying to keep this relationship going and it always ends up in another battle over something new. I can't keep going through this so I told him enough is enough and I haven't had any contact with him since. He sends me emails,messages, calls , leaves things at my door step and it is driving me insane. apart of me wants to give in because I don't want to hurt him but apart of me wants to move on because I can't take it anymore. It's not all him...I have my issues and that is why I feel I need to go my own way. how do I learn to shut my feelings off ? how do I not hurt him? he calls and leaves very very sad messages of how much it hurts him that I won't talk to him ..he doesn't like my friends nor does he want me to have any. I just want to move on ."

I m now in d same situation. My wife said d same thing as u and she left me.
She said sh no longer hav anymore patient with me, no time, do not need xtra burden & stress frm me and she do not hav room in her heart for me anymore.

She said she do not love me anymore and ask me to leave her alone.

I know myself at mistake and I m willing to be more patient n understanding. She said if i love her, proof it to her by respect her decision to put an end to d relationship.

Is there really nothing I can do but to respect her n let her go? She mean so much to me, and I do not want to missed her again.