Hi Jules,,

Geesh you really have had a time of it. I know that there are times when it all seems to be falling in around us, but try letting it fall around you not on top of you. Your son was the architect of his own situation, if he had spoken to you, maybe he would have told you not to contact anyone (they would have noticed believe me), but he didn't. We both know you didn't intend anything to be amiss, you were just caring for him.

Your daughter! Wow I don't know what to say there. Though I do agree she isn't doing herself any favours. But you can only allow her to live her own life and make her own decisions and mistakes; be there for her, but don't be a doormat.

That person you married...hmmm I can only wonder if he had an ulterior motive... There is something not right about that and the way he did it.

I do hope things balance out for you, and remember you do have someone to talk to, you have us, so you're really never alone if you don't want to be hon, just hop online and chat to us...

Blessings,
Rhian