Hello fulloflove

I really do think that the simple advice given by CLeo is to the point, non-confusing and quite spot on.

There are locally funded counsellors where I think you pay a minimal amount for a certain number (up to 12 I think it is) of counselling sessions.

And if he doesn't want to go, go yourself, it will give you insight and understanding. You both do things to "escape" you had drink, now you don't, and he has his pot still (no fair right?)

Please know to that you can always talk to us...open 24/7 that was one of the things I loved when I first came here. Let us know how you go, but don't let the anger sink in, get help before it takes root and is harder to work with.

Blessings,
Rhian